暧昧是，比好朋友再亲一点，但比情人远一点。
暧昧是，彼此有感觉，然而，这种感觉不足以切切实实地发展一段真实的关系。
暧昧是，明白人生有太多的无奈，现实有太多的限制。
暧昧是，有进一步的冲动，但没有进一步的勇气。
暧昧是，一方永远不说，另一方就永远装作不懂。于是一方永远沉默，一方永远装傻。
暧昧是，天冷时，感冒时有一个会在晚上传讯息特意提你服药，叫你多穿点，盖好被早点睡的普通朋友。
暧昧是，半夜你睡不着，却可以放心打电话给他聊天的普通朋友。
暧昧是，当你遇到问题解决不了的时候，你第一个便会想起他。
暧昧是，每当她提及她的另一半时，你会万箭穿心，但你也希望她的幸福。
暧昧是，你明明知道问她你的爱情问题会令她担心，甚至会令她难过，但你除了她却不知道要问谁。
暧昧是，甜津津又同时酸溜溜的。往往从未开始，已叫人不安，患得患失。
暧昧是，常常挣扎彼此关系。你怕透明化之后，你即得不到一个情人，却又失去了一个知心好友。
暧昧是，见不到她时，你会挂念她。见到的时候，又会觉得还好。
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这天，很普通的一天，但对我来说，又多一个失败的一天。记得，2006年3月13日，站在队伍中拿取大马文凭教育的成绩后，一声不出的离开了，只交待了一声我要回吉隆坡了。那时的心情非常的不愉快，虽然我自己知道在那考试中放了多少努力下去，得到的结果会是怎样，足足检讨自己一个星期，对自己说过一定要做到最好。
当老师叫出我的名，我走上前去领认我的成绩单，就走回去座位。打开来看，虽然已得到我的目标，但实现不到我的梦想，我又再次的失败，我到底在那里出错？我越来越恨自己。自从中三后，我在拿取成绩的心情已没有了紧张这个字眼了，已被失败冲淡了。眼见班上的人都很紧张，但自己却能那么的冷静。虽然外表的我无表情，但心里似有千万的利剑穿透着自己的心，一直以来都在流着鲜红的血，还未来的及修补回，还未振作起来，就给多一个打击，多一个失败，打回原位，打回地上。
这天的下午下着雨，跑了出去跑圈，希望雨点能淋醒我自己，豆大的雨点一滴一滴的打在我脸上，我一边跑，一边想。失败的恶梦到底几时才肯离开？
这几晚我都睡不着，买了一些酒来喝，多么的希望它能把我灌醉，好让我有一个能睡的晚上，不会在一旁胡思乱想。从小到今日，都时不时问自己一些不会回答的问题，也更加不会问别人，所以至今日我都还没找到我在寻找的答案。累了，想找一个人来分享都难。算了吧……
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我在想着，该放手还是继续的捉着？很多时候我真的不知该选哪一个好，有时有人会讲：“该放手的就放手。”，但也有听过：“永不言败”。哪一些该放下，哪一些不该放下，我真的不知道，有时真的在那儿求，求一个人，求一个神仙，为我指导，帮我做出选择。为何人生的选择不和我考试中的 Multiple Choice Question，4选1我都选到，但人生我选不到。
选择了“烦”很多事物，导致自己背上很多责任，这些重重的责任让自己增加更多压力，很想把这些压力全部放下，但未免没责任感吗？讲放就放，真的那么容易吗？为什么自己总是将别人的烦恼带给自己去烦呢？会帮到他人吗？要潇潇沙沙的轻轻松松走这一生？还是为大家作出一些贡献呢？临走前真的要做出那么多事吗？
喜欢一个人真的那么盲目吗？明知是没有可能的事，大家也相识不久，也知道她不会喜欢上我，为何我还要跟她坦白呢？难道这就是自寻死路？我真是一个大笨蛋！大傻瓜！不讲还好，见面如朋友一样能谈能说，讲了后就尴尬，心跳加速，面红耳赤，不知该说什么好。每晚只能唱着：
难以忘记初次见你 一双迷人的眼睛在我脑海里 你的身影 挥散不去握你的双手感觉你的温柔真的有点透不过气 你的天真 我想珍惜看到你伤心 我会失意(看到你受委屈 我会伤心)只怕我自己会爱上你 不敢让自己靠的太近怕我没什么能够给你 爱你也需要很大的勇气只怕我自己会爱上你 也许有天会情不自禁想念只让自己苦了自己 爱上你是我情非得已爱上你是我情非得已什么原因 我竟然又会遇见你我真的真的不愿意 就这样陷入爱的陷阱
还是那一句，最痛苦的想念，是当你坐在你喜欢的人的旁边，但一直提醒自己不能去想她。。。。。。
付出了那么久，虽然我不知道这个结果几时会有，或许这一辈子都不会有，但我不会去理会。因为我知道一句：“不要问团体能给你什么，问自己能给团体什么。”，也就是我不会问你能给我什么，只问我自己能为你而付出些什么。
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当你爱上一个人而不被对方所爱，是一件很伤害的事。但最痛苦的莫过于你爱一个人而却没有勇气让她知道你的感受。
最好的朋友是那一种能够让你坐在秋千上，不发一言，然后静静的一起离开，感觉就是从未有过最好的对话。
这是真实的~你永远不知道你得到了什么，直到你失去了的时候，而更加真实的是你永远不会知道自己失去了什么直到她到达的时候。
要遇上一个人只要一分钟的时间，要喜欢上一个人只要一个钟的时间，要爱上一个人只要一天的时间，但要忘记一个人却要用上一生的时间。
为自己的梦想而去想，到自己想到的地方，做自己想做的事，因为你只有一次的人生及一次的机会去做这全部的事。
尝试把自己放在对方的立场，当你感觉受到伤害时，很有可能她也在被伤害着。
最快乐的人并没有须要拥有世界上所有最好的事，而只需要令到大部分的事能沿着自己的人生而来。
人生中一件伤心的事是当你遇见一个对你充满意毅的人，但你却在最后才发现。
一句不小心的话会令一场骂战展开，一句残酷的句子会摧毁你一生，一句爱的句子却会是无限的喜悦和祝福。
爱由一个笑容开始，用一个吻来成长，用一滴眼泪来结束。
当你出生时你一个人在哭，而所有在旁的人在笑。
因此请活出你的生命，当你死的时候，围绕你的人在哭而你便是唯一一个在笑。
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The morning of 30th July was awaken by a call from a friend, though it is nothing to with me. After ending the call, i open my laptop, and saw one of my friend in the messenger. Showing my friend's name, rest in peace. I opened the conversation, asked who is him, what had happened? His full name appear infront of me, telling me the incident happened on the night of 29th July. I still couldn't believe what I'm reading. My friend, a good student though not the type of best friend, but we know each other since primary school, had robbed and murdered. I couldn't control myself at that time, broke down.
I called two of my friend, they were shocked as well but couldn't confirm about the news, I went out to buy newspaper. Reports were shown and the tragedy were appearing in my mind. I had called a friend who is studying the same college with me and quite know about Him. They knew about the news that night after the incident. The whole day I do not know what to do, had a cup of Milo for breakfast, after that tried to study but cannot even focus on a single word, flash back the memories of Him, asking myself why the world is so unfair, a good, clever, obedient student who score great results in the examinations. But why the world have this fate? Would it be too cruel?
I was confused, should I go back to Ipoh? For seventeen years, He is the first friend who left us.Departed to a new destination. He is brave to face the robbers, some may have been run away, but He stays for his rights. He, His name, His face, shall be in our hearts forever. Friend, I'm sorry that I'm unable to be with You, to send You. For You, I with the other Sam Tet students silently pray for You, rest in peace.
It is very touching where we can see all the Sam Tet students in the net that pray for You, although they do not know who are You, yet inside their hearts contains anger and sad, anger of the ones that snatch people's happiness, sad of the ones who have lost a very good and caring friend of You.
"You went with songs to the battle,
you were young,
Straight of limb,
true of eye,
steady and aglow.
You were staunch to the end against odds uncounted,
You fell with the faces to the foe.
You shall not grow old, as we that are left grow old:
Age shall not weary you,
Nor the years condemn.
At the going down of the sun and the morning.
We'll remember you."
Adapted from The Star, Modified from "The Remembrance"
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在感情世界里，一加一不一定等于二，而等于二的例子少之又少。在你身边，是否也有一个她在默默为你付出？如果是，请接受她的诚意，但如果你不想和她有进一步的机会，请你拒绝，因为感情世界是没有对或错，只有谁不懂得珍惜谁，而不珍惜的人，也不代表她选择错误，因为一切都是缘份，经历过的故事，没人会帮你记录，只有自己的脑海有这深沉的记忆，就看你选择忘记还是去努力过，别让自己有机会说“后悔”。。。
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拿着一个空杯， 倒入水直到半杯满。很多人会看成那杯水只是一半满， 也就是半杯水。但我们可以在另一个角度看法看，那半杯水还差少许的水就满了。做事受到挫折时，很多人往往会看成失败，但在另一个角度看，你还离开终点不远，为何不继续下去呢？
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你们可能相爱过,你们也可能喜欢着彼此,
但是,为了什么原因你们没能在一起呢?
也许他为了朋友之间的义气,不能追你。
也许为了顾及家人的意见 ,你们没有在一起。
也许为了出国深造,他没有要你等他。
也许你们相遇太早,还不懂得珍惜对方。
也许你们相遇太晚,你们身边已经有了另一个人。
也许你回头太迟,对方已不再等待。
也许你们彼此在捉摸对方的心,而迟迟无法跨出界线。
不过即使你们没在一起,你们还是保持了朋友的关系。
但是你们心底清楚,对这个人,你比朋友还多了一份关心。
即使不能跟他名正言顺的牵着手逛街,
你们还是可以做无所不谈的朋友。
他有喜欢的人,你口头上会帮他追,心里却不是很清楚你是不是真的希望他追到。
他遇到困难时,你会尽你所能的帮他,不会计较谁欠了谁。
男女朋友吃醋了,你会安抚说你和他只是朋友,但你心中会有那么一丝的不确定。
每个人这辈子,心中都有过这幺一个特别的朋友,很矛盾的行为。
一开始你不甘心只做朋友的,但久了,突然发现这样最好的。
你宁愿这样关心他, 总好过你们在一起而有天会分手。
你宁愿做他的朋友,彼此不会吃醋,才可以真的无所不谈。
特别是这样,你还是知道,他永远会关心你的。
做不成男女朋友,当他那个特别的朋友,有什么不好呢?
你心中的这个特别的朋友...? 是谁呢?
很多的感情,
都因为一厢情愿,
最后连朋友都当不成了,
常常觉得惋惜,
可惜一些本来很好的友情,
最后却因为对方的一句喜欢你,
如果你没有反应,
这一段友情似乎也难以维持下去,
这也难怪有些人会因此不肯踏出这一步。
因为这就像是一场赌注,
表白了之后不是成了男女朋友,
要不就连朋友都当不成了。
有些事不是你能预料的,
或许对方不在意,
你们还可以是朋友,
但却已经不如从前的好。
也是可惜,也是遗憾!
但还有没有可能是另一种情况,
你可能永远都不甘心只是朋友. . . . .
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我不懂得追女孩，但我老实。。。
我不懂得说甜言蜜语，但我老实。。。
我不懂得送礼物，但我老实。。。
我不懂得得到你的关怀，但我老实。。。
我不是很聪明，但我老实。。。
我不是别人的榜样，但我老实。。。
我不是什么人迷，但我老实。。。
我很愚蠢，但我老实。。。
我不会说谎，因为我太老实。。。
就因为我的老实，很坦白的告诉你了我喜欢你。。。
也因为我的老实，我将心里的话全部说完出来。。。
最后还是老实，带来寂寞在身边陪伴着我。。。
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雨，是一种很奇妙的情景。地球上，没有一个地方是没有下雨的，同时在每一分每一秒至少有一个地方在下雨。
雨是必定的循环，有太阳的地方，就会有下雨的地方。下雨时，天气特别冷，心情也特别冷静，它让人有一种非常舒服的感觉。
二零零二年年终团体训练营，在Tanah Rata, Cameron Highlands，天气非常冷又爽，下午Physical Training时又下雨，脱了衣服玩，Senior又在楼上拨水，虽然是很辛苦，又累，但与朋友一起共度难关，加上雨水的凉爽，感觉很好！
很多人说，男生雨中走路，很有形！走过无数次，不见得有何有形。如果雨下得大的话，很可能还会生病，那时还说什么有形呢？自己病倒睡在床上，还需要人照顾，有形吗？
很多时候，当要离别时，天不知时不是明白我，还是同情我，或者是取笑我，那时会下着雨。一月七日早上九时，离别怡保，是最冷的一天在下雨。从那天起，每当下雨，我都独自一人走出去。
喜欢下雨，因为你不知我在哭。。。。。。
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很多人说，朋友难找，要戴眼识人，不要交错朋友，不然的话就会带给自己不良的事。朋友难找，真心朋友更难得！
怎样才算是真心朋友？我看不只是用那颗心出来交友吧。很多人跟我讲，他们有很多朋友，交友广阔，出街都是一大堆人一起出，看起来好像很威风。但问起，他能记得多少个朋友的电话号码？我想不超过五个吧，因为现在手提电话里都可以记录联络号码，但我自己就算电话里有那个记录，我从不查看号码，因为什么？他们是我的真朋友！
地址？记来干吗？寄信？不用吧，要见朋友的话，直接驾车去他的家吧！又怎知他是否在家？真朋友的行程已背熟了，几点在家，几点在补习，几点吃饭。
真朋友一起出街，吃饭时不会我等你想要吃什么，因为我已帮你叫了你最喜欢吃的东西，最喜欢喝的饮料，真朋友不吃的东西，绝对不会出现！
做朋友的，是否知道对方的家庭背景？几多个兄弟姐妹？这些应该是很简单的事吧，但知不知道朋友家里的冰厨有什么？家里用的东西是什么牌子？我看鲜少人知道吧。
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1. 愛一個人而那個人不愛你是很讓人難受的，但更痛苦的是，愛一個人，卻永遠都沒勇氣告訴他。
2. 生命中最悲哀的一件事，就是遇到了一個對你來說很重要的人，但你卻到了最后才發現，一切都太遲了，你無力回天，只好任其隨風而逝。
3. 最好的朋友是你們靜坐在游廊上，一句話也不說，當你們各自走開的時候，仍感到你們經歷了一場十分精彩的對話。
4. 當我們失去的時候，才知道自己曾經擁有。
5. 只需一分鐘就可以碰到一個人，一小時喜歡上一個人，一天愛上一個人，但需要花盡一生的時間去忘掉一個人。
6. 不要追求外表，它會騙人。不要追求財富，它會消失。追求一個能經常讓你微笑的人吧，因為微笑會讓你灰暗的世界豁然開朗、陽光明媚
7. 夢自己想夢的，做自己想做的，因為生命只有一次，機會不會再來
8. 一句無心的話也許會點燃糾紛，一句殘酷的話也許會毀掉生命，一句及時的話也許會消釋緊張，一句知心的話也許會愈合傷口、挽救他人。
9. 最快樂的人所擁有的一切東西并不都是最好的，但他們會充分享受自己已有的東西。
10. 愛情是以微笑開始，以吻生長，以淚結束。你出生的時候，你哭著，周圍的人笑著﹔在生命的盡頭，你笑著，而周圍的人在哭著。
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当了学长都有三年了，回想起当初在什么情况下进入学长团，面试时被骂等等。在等待面试时，曾对自己讲过，做学长会面临被打的机会，自己也很不明白自己知道与清楚很大可能会发生的事情，但也很盲目的踏入课室接受面试。
很顺利的，面试通过了，也很自然的做了中三见习学长。当初的我们，只会“碰钉子”，又问有何多人知道什么是“碰钉子”呢？“碰钉子”就是明知将会受伤，受苦都要去做的事情！这三个字似呼每一天都会出现在我们脑海里，每天morning与recess duty都去闯，有case发生就写borang kesalahan与interview。Borang Kesalahan我都不知写了几多张，Interview中也不知骂了几多位学生了。
这样我们中三见习学长乱撞都撞了不少“大头佛”给老总与老师，但我们之中的人数也渐渐少了，大部分的都是受不了或怕被学生打而选择推出与放弃。上到中四学长，换上白裤，感觉特别不同。
很快的，中五的日子就快结束了。在这三年里，什么是学长？都明白了，学长不是Prefect那么简单，学长是学习成长！眼见耳闻其它学校的学长时常给学生欺负，我校学长是不会与学生妥协，当妥协发生时，学生就会得寸进尺，得过且过。当然，有时面子双方也给点啦！学长只是维持学校纪律吗？不！学长是学生与老师之间的桥梁，把老师的意识带给学生，同同时也把学生的意见带给老师，但往往学生的思想还没成熟，导致双方面发生冲突，在中间的我们最辛苦！
除了这些，又有何人能明白与做得到守时，效率与交代呢？不是每一个人都时常有这三样指南在心里。当你找到真正的朋友时，一种非常特别的感觉就会出现在心里，那种感觉并非一笔一纸能形容，哪里找？我找到了，这种感觉我看三德才有。
至今，非常遗憾的一件事是2005中五与中六毕业典礼。礼堂上的布条的确是悬挂着“2005年中五与中六毕业典礼”，但典礼的焦点已放入在中六生。典礼完毕以后，好多学生跑过来向我说：“这典礼好像我们中五学生不是在毕业，我们中五学生都不存在的。”，“中六生有好多从外校来的，但地位比我们在三德读了五年的学生高！”。听了以后，心里很痛很伤，虽然是真的，但身为学长的我需保持中立，最终也没什么说话。回到家，当晚没有睡，想着自己身位学长都无能为力把中五生的最高兴与最后一天留着在他们脑海里。为何中六有sixth form night，中五没有？原因不是因为中五生的纪律太差吧？难道中六生没有纪律问题吗？在这里，我非常希望与我同肩的朋友，有回三德接任学长的朋友，在2006年不要把中五毕业生冷落一旁，虽然这不关中六什么事，但这是学长为校服务之一！
三个月的晚上，我已坐了在这书桌三个月的晚上了，在问自己这三个月做了什么？！三个约后才问自己到底这条路是否适合自己？！难道自己不知道自己的性格吗？选了这条路，就拼到底！永不言败是我的信念！朋友们，选这条路是我的选择，也有原因，我不跟你们讲，也自有原因，或许是自己从来不跟人讲自己将会做什么，想什么。
切记，
人最大的挑战是控制自己，
人最大的挑战者是自己！
赢的是自己，不是别人；
输的更加不是别人，是自己！
.::_++_~~cH3n_w3!~~_++_::.
每个人都有女朋友，我也不例外。
我的女朋友比一般女朋友厉害。
每天，我都要早上7点起床，为她煮好早餐。
还要小心翼翼的叫她起床，确定她美梦完整的写上句号才能够叫醒她。
等她饱饱的吃完早餐后，要安安全全的送她去上班。
被逼要在众人面前背颂那几句暂别前的台词：“你知道我是多么的牵挂你么？”，“没有你，世界是多么的寒冷！”，“没有你，时间是多么的漫长！”
无奈的还要追她坐的车15分钟。
之后才能收拾自己的东西上自己的班。
。。。。。。大概你也了解到我的女朋友是多么的霸道了吧！！！
我“窝囊”？？才不是！我是正真的男人！！！
每次在街上遇到疯狗，我就会挺身而出把疯狗赶走。
我还是堂堂的君子，被逼看女人不能超过3秒，包括阿婆。
我不吸烟，不喝酒，不和兄弟出去鬼滚。
我简直就是新时代的活化石。
为什么～为什么～为什么我有一个那样的女朋友？！
别人的女朋友对男朋友都百依百顺的。
这个问题我的兄弟已问过我上万次了！
没有答案，或者是我自己懒得去思考这个问题的答案。
每天吃饭前我都要向我的女朋友汇报我吃的什么。
我的手机永远保持开机状态，二十四小时都能找到我。
到下班，我要准时在公共汽车站以最热烈最感人的形式接女朋友回家。
无论刮风下雨，晚上除了洗衣服扫地之外，我还要陪她看无聊的电影。
她哭了，我还要比她哭得更厉害。
她笑了，我还要比她笑得更痛快。
到了晚上我还要唱着歌哄她入睡。
我的一天都要好好的，好好的，好好的。。。
关心她，照顾她，爱护她。。。
我想正常人都会受不了这种生活，也会骂我没用，但，我早已习惯了。
为什么每天煮早餐给她吃？
因为她让我体会到做母亲的辛苦，让我更爱我的母亲，更爱以后孩子的母亲。
为什么要送她去公车上班？
因为她比我更希望多见对方一面。
为什么要根狗搏斗？
因为她需要我的勇敢。
为什么不能看别的女人？
因为她比我更害怕失去对方。
为什么要难为我？
因为她下一辈子只能依靠一刻包容的心。
为什么要我报告她我的饮食？
因为她比我更关心我的健康。
为什么要能随时找到我？
因为她比我更牵挂对方。
为什么要紧可能帮助她？
因为她只需要我的帮助。
为什么要准时接她下班？
因为她第一个想见的就是我。
为什么要陪她喜怒哀乐？
因为她要我知道她的心。
为什么要哄她入睡？
因为她比我更害怕做梦时看不见对方。
以后。。。我依然会好好的，好好的，好好的关心她，照顾她，爱护她。。。
没有任何理由。
因为爱是双方的。
.::_++_~~cH3n_w3!~~_++_::.
一位少年，一心想成为能将快乐带给他人的伟人，但是他不知该如何做，因此感到十分沮丧。当他遇到了一位年长的智者，这位智者送给了少年四句话：第一句是把自己当成别人，第二句是把别人当成自己，第三句是把别人当成别人，第四句是把自己当成自己。少年听了，觉得这四句话似乎互相矛盾，难以理解，但是智者却不多解释，只是告诉他：“经过一生的时间和经历后，你自然就会明白。”
多年以后，少年懂记年长智者的四句话走过大半生，最终也成为了一位智者，他果然如愿以偿的为周围的人带来了快乐，自己也成为了一位快乐的人。他终于明白了当年那位年长智者所说过的四句话，并且用他们作为人生的准则。
那四句话的涵义就是：“把自己当成别人”，遇到挫折，失败，把自己当成别人，便能置身事外，冷静的面对困境；当功成名就，扬名利万时，把自己当成别人，就不至于得意忘形，自以为是；“把别人当成自己”，做人做事，随时设身处地为别人着想，站在他人立场处理事情，自然会多点同情心，多给点帮助；“把别人当成别人”，不要予以干涉他人的自由，学习尊重别人，凡是不要强人所难；“把自己当成自己”。学会独立自主，不要养成依赖他人的坏习惯，懂得承担自己的责任。
这四句话就是一贴快乐处方。教导我们在不同的场合，不同的情况，懂得站在不同的角度，以不同的心态去看待每一件事情，才能以平常心，同理心去处理每一个发生在自己身上的问题；去体谅别人的处境。正所谓品读故事，温故知新。使我们以人为镜，可以知得失，学会换位思考，多角度多方位的观察社会，善待人生。如是，我们可摆脱不应有的烦恼，使自己的生活多点愉快，同时把快乐传递给周围的人。
把自己当成别人
把别人当成自己
把别人当成别人
把自己当成自己
.::_++_~~cH3n_w3!~~_++_::.
人生，总有生老病死四大站。当中也有一些小站，包括了分别，分别就是新的遇见，有遇有分，乃是人生的小小转站。天下无不散之筵席。分别是必要经过的转站，只在于谁先下车，谁迟下车，谁最后下车。毕竟，我买的车票，的终点，的目的地，的车站已到了，也就是时候下车，上另一斑车，即将带我到何处地方，我也不清楚。往往都是我们的双唇为弱者，总是说不出那句美满及祝福的“再见”。分离，我们还是不能逃避的现实，也不需要太过强求它。做人，不要只是坐在巴士上，无所事事，车站到了就下车。为何不享受巴士上的过程？观看路程上的风景？
.::_++_~~cH3n_w3!~~_++_::.
离别三德已久，曾经写过无数的文章关于第一天与在三德过的日子，就没想过要写一张离开三德的那天以后。在中五那年，曾经时常问身边的朋友，中五后有什么打算？得到的反应是不知道，看成绩。那时有这么的想过，就读中六吧，好让我有多两年时间来想日后的路。深问自己，中六的读书生活，我真的能适应吗？听过无数中六学生，他们每天晚上都必须读到三更半夜，甚着考试压力非常大，有一次一位中六生因考不好而企图轻生，真的那么恐怖吗？
试问捕导老师，和他讲了我自己的读书心态与能力，他劝告了我中六的路回比较辛苦，学院的路比较适合我。在这时我必须选其中一条路，有那么的冲动选择中六，因为我可以留在三德参加V.A.D. 7,参加学长团继续为校服务，参加U.S.S.T.一起与朋友将三德的团体联合起来。再想一想，曾经听过有一句话：“不要为了团体而留在中六”，我一个人的力量能做得完以上全部吗？一个人的精彩永远不会表现得好的。
最终，我选择了走学院这条路。走这条路也有很多选择，不能选错，一旦选错了我就浪费了很多金钱与时间。在网上，报纸上寻找了许多不同的学院的资料，我也必须知道我的父母是否有能力送我去此学院。。。。。。
今日已三月多了，路也走了一半。。。来到这里，看一看世界，什么事，什么人都有。发觉身边有很多人还抱着不成熟的心态来到这儿，是我早成熟，还是他们还没成熟呢？再静静的想一想，原来三德的团体影响是那么大！他们以前在中学时期，不明什么是归属感，不明什么是站在别人的立场想，只是死读书。他们每做每一样事，都没有想过后果是什么就行动了。
听过无数的人称他们自己是总学长，副总学长，某某团体的主席等等，曾经无数次的搞大型活动。问一句：“你知道什么是站在别人的立场想吗？”只见他们摇起头来反问我。其实我也很想知道，一个好的领导者需要些什么？好的口才？好的表面？铭记于心，一个好的领导者不是自夸的，而是别人赞扬的。
如今回想起以前的日子是多么的开心，一起在学校过夜，半夜三点钟
在草场踢球，还是没有灯光下的情况。在红新月会，有事发生一起去救人，在这儿认识了十六位真正的朋友；在学长团，十四位来自正义之团一起走在马路上，感觉可不同！真朋友，全部一一出于三德！
二月二十五日回来三德走走时，朋友说三德不再是三德了，我听见时，起初我还不相信，踏入三德校园时，有一种感觉告诉我三德的改变。找了一位学生来问，何谓三德？得到的答案是一间求学的学校。深问有何多人知道何谓三德？信，望，爱，爱吾三德，一日三德生，终生三德人，这些精神全部已消失在学生间。对外人来说，三德是一间明名校，我不多过问因为他们并没有在三德过日子，对我来说，三德不再是三德了。
.::_++_~~cH3n_w3!~~_++_::.
Golden rule : Every thing has a reason. If you don’t know what you are doing, then do it!
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千金难买一回头
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人最大的挑战者是自己
人最大的挑战是控制自己
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我们每拿起一样东西,就会留下一样东西.
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Faith makes all things possible...
Hope makes all things work...
Love makes everything beautiful...
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有时侯,太多的言语,挤压了聆听的空撩.
有时侯,太多的行为,失去了安静的能力.
你穿过重重人群,接收四面八方的声音,
也看尽各式各样的行为.
你穿透无沾无带的自己,
知道身外一切都是幻想,
也知道身内一切纯净清晰.
有时侯,什么也不说,才能聆听来自宇宙的声音.
有时侯,什么也不做,才能把整个世界放进你的手心.
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喜欢下雨,因为你不知道我在哭.
喜欢装傻,因为你不知道我暗恋你.
喜欢孤独,因为你不知道我喜欢你.
喜欢运动,因为你不知道我不开心.
喜欢睡觉,因为你不知道我在想你.
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从回忆中,学习珍惜;
从珍惜中,学习爱惜;
从爱惜中,学习关心;
从关心中,学习保护;
从保护中,学习开心;
从开心中,学习伤心;
从伤心中,学习回忆.
.::_++_~~cH3n_w3!~~_++_::.
I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.
No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.
Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.
Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.
Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.
Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.
.::_++_~~cH3n_w3!~~_++_::.
第一个是自己,
第二个是你最爱的人,
第三个是最爱你的人，
第四个是共度一生的人.
首先会遇到你最爱的人，然後体会到爱的感觉；
因为了解被爱的感觉，所以才能发现最爱你的人；
当你经历过爱人与被爱，学会了爱，才会知道什么是你需要的，
也才会找到最适合你，能够相处一辈子的人。
但很悲哀的，在现实生活中，这三个人通常不是同一个人；
你最爱的，往往没有选择你；
最爱你的，往往不是你最爱的；
而最长久的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，
只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。
你，会是别人生命中的第几个人呢？
没有人是故意要变心的，他爱你的时候是真的爱你，
可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了，
他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你；
同样的，他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你 。
当一个人不爱你要离开你，
你要问自己还爱不爱他，
如果你也不爱他了，千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开；
如果你还爱他，你应该会希望他过得幸福快乐，
希望他跟真正爱的人在一起，绝不会阻止，
你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福，就表示你已经不爱他了，
而如果你不爱他，你又有什么资格指责他变心呢？
爱不是占有，你喜欢月亮，不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里，
但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。
换句话说，你爱一个人，也可以用另一种方式拥有，
让爱人成为生命里的永恒回忆，
如果你真爱一个人，就要爱他原来的样子─爱他的好，也爱他的坏：
爱他的优点，也爱他的缺点，
绝不能因为爱他，就希望他变成自己所希望的样子，
万一变不成就不爱他了。
真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的，
你只知道无论何时何地、心情好坏，你都希望这个人陪著你；
真正的感情是两人能在最艰苦中相守，也就是没有丝毫要求。
毕竟，感情必须付出，而不是只想获得；
分开是一种必然的考验，
如果你们感情不够稳固，只好认输，
真爱是不会变成怨恨的。
你呢？找到了第几个？
茫茫人海中，你遇见了谁？谁又遇见了你？
.::_++_~~cH3n_w3!~~_++_::.
从前在一座小岛上住着各种“感觉”
有一天这个小岛不知道为什么突然要沉了
各种“感觉”纷纷搭着自己的船争先恐后准备离开
而有一种叫“爱”的感觉却不急着走
直到岛沉下去的最后一刻才离开
但它的船却莫名其妙的破了
它开始找寻其它的“感觉”
向它们求救
首先它找到了“虚荣”
但“虚荣”觉得泡在水里的“爱”上船后会弄脏它的船于
是便不理它
“爱”又找到了“富贵”
但是“富贵”的船上装满了金银珠宝根本无法让它上船
继续找……
它找到了“快乐”
“爱”对着“快乐”求救
但“快乐”就是快乐
真不知为了什么事快乐
根本没有看到“爱”
继续找……
这次“爱”找到了“孤单”
但“孤单”已经习惯了自己一个人孤单
所以还是没让“爱”上船
正当“爱”绝望时
突然有个老人伸手把它拉上自己的船
老人没说什么
也一样跟着其它“感觉”找寻可以生存的小岛
最后它们到了一个小岛后
老人把“爱”放下后就又坐上船走了
“爱”一直没有机会问老人的名字
直到不久后它遇到一个老人叫“智慧”
“智慧”告诉“爱”那个救它的老人是“时间”
“时间”之所以会救“爱”
是因为只有时间能肯定爱的存在
.::_++_~~cH3n_w3!~~_++_::.
还记得，我们俩，几年几月几日认识；
还记得，我们俩，在什么情况下认识；
还记得，我们俩，就是信息明白对方；
还记得，我们俩，曾在信息误会对方；
还记得，我们俩，误会了还是没有事；
还记得，我们俩，都听过对方心上人；
还记得，我们俩，时常给鼓励与劝告；
还记得，你对我说：“还是朋友”.
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A mechanic was removing the cylinder heads from the motor of a car when he spotted the famous heart surgeon in his shop, who was standing off to the side, waiting for the service manager to come to take a look at his car. The mechanic shouted across the garage, "Hello Doctor! Please come over here for a minute." The famous surgeon, a bit surprised, walked over to the mechanic. The mechanic straightened up, wiped his hands on a rag argumentatively, "So doctor, look at this. I also open hearts, take valves out, grind 'em, put in new parts, and when I finish this will work as new one. So how come you get the big money, when you and me is doing basically the same work?"
The doctor leaned over and whispered to the mechanic..."Try to do it when the engine is running".
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从前，有一个脾气很坏的男孩.他的爸爸给了他一袋钉子，告诉他，每次发脾气或者跟人吵架的时候，就在院子的篱笆上钉一根。第一天，男孩钉了37根钉子。后面的几天他学会了控制自己的脾气，每天钉的钉子也逐渐减少了。他发现，控制自己的脾气，实际上比钉钉子要容易的多。终于有一天，他一根钉子都没有钉，他高兴的把这件事告诉了爸爸。
爸爸说："从今以后，如果你一天都没有发脾气，就可以在这天拔掉一根钉子." 日子一天一天过去，最后，钉子全被拔光了。爸爸带他来到篱笆边上，对他说："儿子，你做得很好，可是看看篱笆上的钉子洞，这些洞永远也不可能恢复了。就象你和一个人吵架，说了些难听的话，你就在他心里留下了一个伤口，像这个钉子洞一样。"插一把刀子在一个人的身体里，再拔出来，伤口就难以愈合了。无论你怎么道歉，伤口总是在那儿。要知道，身体上的伤口和心灵上的伤口一样都难以恢复。你的朋友是你宝贵的财产，他们让你开怀，让你更勇敢。他们总是随时倾听你的忧伤。你需要他们的时候，他们会支持你，向你敞开心扉。"告诉你的朋友你多么爱他们，告诉所有你认为是朋友的人，你的行动可以从邮寄这个小小的故事开始。有一天，当这封信回到你的信箱里时。你会发现你有一个很大的朋友圈.
最后，我要说："友谊的幸福之一，是知道了可以向谁倾吐秘密。"如果你收到了这封信，是因为有人在默默的祝福你，因为你也爱你身边的一些人。如果你总说太忙，不能将这封信转寄出去，老是说："改天再寄。"你将永远都不会去做这件事的。所以，不要找借口，静心的看看这篇古老印度来的故事，然后决定为你的朋友们作一些事，从传寄这封信开始。当你说："你是我的好朋友"时，请认真的说出来。当你道歉时请看着对方的眼睛。
永远不要嘲笑别人的梦想。不要随便给一个人定性。说话时要慢，思想时要快。
打电话的时候请你微笑，对方一定感觉得到。
这是一个朋友转发给我的信。常常收到类似的让我继续转发的邮件，号称如果这样做了就会发财之类，通常我会把自己作为终点，但是这封信打动了我，因为它说："收到了这封信，是因为有人在默默的祝福你，因为你也爱你身边的一些人"。带着爱的，一切将如愿以偿。
朋友本不该有那么重要，朋友又的确那么重要。生命里或许可以没有感动、没有胜利...没有其他的东西，但不能没有的是朋友。
朋友是可以一起打着伞在雨中漫步；是可以一起在海边沙滩上打个滚儿；是可以一起沉溺于某种音乐遐思；是可以一起徘徊于书海畅游；朋友是有悲伤我陪你一起掉眼泪，有欢乐我和你一起傻傻的笑……
朋友不一定常常联系，但也不会忘记，每次偶尔念起，还是感觉那么温暖、那么亲切、那么柔情；朋友是把关怀放在心里，把关注藏在眼底；朋友是相伴走过一段又一段的人生，携手共度一个又一个黄昏；朋友是想起时平添喜悦，忆及时更多温柔。 朋友如醇酒，味浓而易醉；朋友如花香，淡雅且芬芳；朋友是秋天的雨，细腻又满怀诗意；朋友是十二月的梅，纯洁又傲然挺立。朋友不是画，它比画更绚丽；朋友不是歌，它比歌更动听；朋友应是那意味深长的散文，写过昨天又期待未来。
朋友的美不在来日方长；朋友最真是瞬间永恒、相知刹那；朋友的可贵不是因为曾一同走过的岁月，朋友最难得是分别以后依然会时时想起，依然能记得：你，是我的朋友。
有朋友的日子里总是阳光灿烂，花朵鲜艳；有朋友的时候才发现自己已经拥有了一切。我们可以失去很多，但不能失去的是朋友。朋友也许并不能成为一段永恒，朋友也许只是你生命中某段时间的一个过客，但因为这份缘起缘灭，更使生命变得美丽起来，朋友的情感更加生动和珍贵。即使没有将来又有何妨？至少，曾经我与你一起走过朋友的路。
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走在来来往往的街头
你不再牵着我的手
小心翼翼的将你小指勾
泪也小心翼翼的流
有些事情你在瞒着我
你终于还是开了口
单单一句 ~~ 还是朋友
撕裂的心 犹如刀割
知道分手后你不难过
你比从前快乐
那祝福的话叫我如何能够说出口
那过往的欢乐是否褪色
想问你怎么舍得
不要在耳边再说你会想起我
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生命就似小孩上绘画班一样,拼命的图上颜色, 拼照五彩缤纷的作品.当然大家都希望自己的作品能得到许多人的赏识与认同.但,不要因某人的否定,而抹杀自己的方向.不要忘了,五彩缤纷也是从白色开始.新的开始也是因为旧的结束,只要有生命,一切都是美好的.
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当一切只剩下回忆, 我到底该记得些什么? 遗忘些什么?
空荡荡的位子, 是你给我一生中最大的空缺,
突然的消失, 真的让人不知所措……
曾经一起走过的路, 如今, 只剩下我落单的脚步……
总是觉得你一直在身旁, 却在蓦然回首时, 才惊觉你早已离去……
究竟怎样的速度, 才会让人来得及赶回曾经来不及的时刻……
少了你的温度的杯子, 再怎样瘟热的咖啡, 也暖和不了冷却的心……
凝望着蓝蓝的天空, 如果我在这时候呼唤你的名字, 你会听到吗?
有时侯会想,如果当初不告而别的人是我, 现在的你是否会想起我?
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When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of coffee...
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
The proffesor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shooked the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jars was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded wth a unanimous "Yes".
The professor then produced 2 cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.
"Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided,
"I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are important things - your God, family, your children, your friends, and your favourite passions -- things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be fulled. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, and your car. The sand is everything else -- the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first, the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
One of the student raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked. It jsut goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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If you find yourself in Love with someone who does not Love you, be gentle with yourself.
There is nothing wrong with you.
Love just didn't choose to rest in other person's heart...
If you find someone else in Love with you and you don't Love him/her, feel honored that Love came and called at your door,but gently refuse the gift you cannot return, do not take advantage, do not cause pain...
If you fall in Love with another, and he/she falls in Love with you, and then Love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, let it go.
There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time...
Remember that you don't choose Love, Love chooses you.
All you can really do is accept it for all it's mistery when it comes into your life. feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away...
How you deal with Love is how you deal with yourself, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys as you, even if our lives and ways are different...
The first blush of new Love is filled to overflowing, but as their Love cools, they revert to seeing their Love need.
They cease to be someone who generates Love & instead become someone who seeks Love...
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When the bus come, you look at it and you said to yourself, "eeee ... so full ...cannot sit down one". So you said to yourself, "I'll wait for thenext one." so you let the bus go and waited for the second bus.
Then the second bus came, you looked at it and you said, "eeee ...this bus so old ...surely very uncomfortable one." So you let the bus go and decided to wait for the next bus.
After a while, another bus came. It's not crowded and not old but you said,"eeee ... no air-cond one ...and the weather is so warm, better wait for the next one." So again you let the bus go and decided to wait for the nextbus.
Then the sky started to get dark as it is getting late.
You panicked and jump on to the next on coming bus. It is not until much later that you found out that you had boarded on to the wrong bus! So you wasted your time and money waiting for what you want!
Even if an aircond bus came, can you ensure that the aircond bus won't breakdown or will the aircond be too cold for you?
So people...(mostly girls but guys too!) want to make sure that what you want is not wrong. But it wouldn't hurt to give other people a chance,right? If you found that the "bus" doesn't suit, you just press the red button and get off the bus!
But wait...I am sure all of you have this experienced before. You saw a bus is coming (the bus you want of course) you flagged it and the driver acted blur by pretending not seeing you and zoomed pass you!
The bottom line of being loved is like waiting for a bus and whether you want to get on the bus and give the bus a chance depends totally on you and walking alone is just like being out of love.
If you love someone set him/her free. If he/she comes back to you, you know they're yours. If they don't then it was never meant to be.
Remember to always say what you mean.
If you love someone, tell. Don't be afraid to express yourself.
Reach out and tell someone what they mean to you. Because when you decide that it is the right time, it might be too late.
Seize the day.
Never have regrets.
And most importantly, stay close to your friends and family, for they have helped make you the person that you are today.
The difference between doing all that you can or having regrets which may stay with you forever.
Friendship is never an accident. It is always theresult of high intentions, sincere effort, intelligent direction and skillful execution. It represents the wise choice of many alternatives.
"Of All Things You Wear, Your Smile Is As love returns to me, As I return to you, As love returns to us."
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A student ask a teacher, "what is love?"
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the padi field and choose the biggest padi and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the field, go through first row, he saw one big padi,but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later. Then he saw another bigger one... but may be there is a even bigger one waiting for him. Later, when he finished more than half of the padi field, he start to realise that the padi is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regreted. So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand. The teacher told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for a better one, but whenlater you realise, you have already miss the person...."
"What is marriage then?" the student asked.
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.
The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn.... you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get.... this is marriage."
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Girl: Do I ever cross your mind?
Boy: No...
Girl: Do you like me?
Boy: Not really...
Girl: Do you want me?
Boy: Nope
Girl: Would you cry if I left?
Boy: Hell No...
Girl: Would you live for me?
Boy: Of coz no...
Girl: Would you do anything for me?
Boy: No...
Girl: What would you choose: your life... or me?
Boy: I choose My Life
The girl runs away with such shock and pain in her heart but the boy run after her and shouted loudly....
The reason you never cross my mind is because you're always on my mind...
The reason why I don't like you is because I love you...
The reason I don't want you is because I need you...
The reason I wouldn't cry if you left is because I would die if you left me...
The reason wouldn't live for you is because I would die for you...
The reason why I'm not willing to do anything for you is because I would do everything for you... The reason I chose my life is because you ARE my life.
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If you're afraid to love a person because of friendship, you have two choices: either tell whatyou feel and let the love take place or hide thefeeling under a friendship full of pretensions.
It's hard for two people to love each other whenthey live in two different worlds but when thesetwo worlds collide and become one, that's what youcall magic!
Love can never be so beautiful without friendship. One leads to another and the process is irreversible. The best of lovers is the greatest of friends!
I like you because you're my friend, and because you are my friend I care, and because I care, I love you. I don't love you because you are my friend, I love you because I do!
Sometimes I've asked myself, what would make me happy? To think that I have everything else, I get what I want. Then I realized it was YOU, too bad cause it's you i can't have. I can't choose who I'm gonna love, but I also can't love who chooses to love me.
And you can't blame me in choosing to love you as much as I can't blame you for not learning to love me. I'm sorry if you can't love me the way you loved the one before me, so I'll let you go find him/her and hope someday you'll see that the one true love you're looking for was the one who set you free.
"How can I say goodbye to someone I never had? Why do tears fall for someone who was never mine? Why is that I miss someone I was never with and Iask why I love someone who's love was never mine?"
Isn't it funny we're trying to catch the attention of the one we think we love; we hardly notice the one we're really looking for was just there. You don't notice them till they are in the arms of someone else.
Food for thought, think of this: Have you really cared for someone more than you expected?
Have you ever tried to love him/her despite of all the pain?
Will you keep on loving him/her as he/she whispers someone else's name? Will you?
It's better to lose your pride with someone you love rather than lose that someone you love with your useless pride. When you love someone, don't expect that person to love you back the same amount. One of you will be head, the other behind.It's either you catch up or the other waits.
When you love, you must not accept anything in return, for if you do, you're not loving but Investing.
If you love, you must prepare to accept pain, for if you expect happiness, you're not loving but using. True love hears what is not spoken, and understands what is not explained, for love doesn't work in the mouth, nor the mind, but in the heart...
Love is like standing on wet cement, the longer you stay the harder it is to leave and you can never go without leaving your prints behind.
Don't love a person like a flower, because a flower dies in season.
Love them like a river because a river flows forever.
Love doesn't have to have a happy ending, cause love doesn't have to end at all.
Never be afraid to fall in love. It may hurt a lot, it may give you aches and pains, but if you don't follow your heart, in the end you will cry even more for not giving love a chance.
Love may leave your heart like shattered glass,but keep in mind that there's someone who'll bewilling to endure the pain of picking up the pieces so you could be whole again.
The cruelest thing a guy could do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall! And fooling around with her feelings like they meant nothing.
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One day, a young man stood in the town square and proclaimed that he had the most beautiful heart in the whole valley. A large crowd soon gathered and everyone admired his heart – it didn’t have any mark or flaw. Yes, they all agreed. It truly was the most perfect heart they had ever seen. The young man was very proud and boasted even louder.
Suddenly, an old man appeared before the crowd and said, “Why, your heart is not nearly as beautiful as mine.” Everyone turned to stare at his heart. It was beating strongly, but it was full of scars. It had parts where pieces had been removed and other put in, but these didn’t quite fit and there were jagged edges.
In fact, there were gouges where whole bits were missing. The people stared: how could he say his heart was more beautiful?
“You must be joking,” the young man laughed. “Your heart is a mess of tears and scars.”
“Yes,” said the old man, “but I would never trade mine with yours. You see, every scar represents a person whom I have given my love. I tear out a piece of my heart and give it to them, and often, they give me a piece of theirs. But because the pieces aren’t exact, I have some rough edges, which I cherish because they remind me of the love we share.”
“Sometimes, the other person doesn’t give a piece of his heart in return. So the gouges. When you give love, you take a chance. Although the gouges are painful, they stay open, to remind me of the love I have for these people. I hope some day, they will return and fill the space I have waiting.”
As tears coursed down his cheeks, the young man reached into his perfect heart and ripped a piece out. With trembling hands, he offered it to the old man.
The old man placed the offering in his heart, then took a piece from his scarred organ and put it over the wound in the young man’s heart. It fit, but not quite.
The young man looked at his now imperfect heart, and felt the old man’s love flow into it.They embraced and walked away, side by side.
As soon as I tear a piece of my heart and placed it into yours, I had never thought of any return. My heart now is full of scars and holes, or maybe had broken into pieces.
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In a very small town, where two young lover stays, they went to the seaside watch the sun raises everyday, evening says goodbye to the sun as it sets, every one who pass by them will envy what their life.
But one day, the couple is involve in a car accident, puts the girl into coma after the serious injury, she did not wake up after a few days, lying motionless on the bed. Daytime, the boy will be sitting beside the bed, holding her hands, waiting beside her to wake up, hoping that she will gain conscious; at night, the boy went to the town’s church to pray silently to the God, wish that the girl will wake up soon, with his tears had begun to dry out day by day, night by night.
A month past, the girl is still in coma, and the boy had no more ideas to help the girl, but he kept repeating his days and nights beside the girl’s bed and praying to the God. Until one day, the God is touch by this boy, so He helps the boy, asking the boy, “Are you willing to exchange your life with the girl’s life?” Without second thought, the boy answered yes. The God said, “Well, I can make the girl wake up, but you must turn into a dragonfly for three years, will you agree?” Once again the boy answered yes.
Morning came, the boy had changed into a dragonfly, he said goodbye to the God and flew to the hospital, the girl had finally woke up, and talking with the doctor, but he cannot hear what she says.
A few days later, the girl discharge from the hospital and fully recovered, but she isn’t happy. She kept on looking for the boy, asking around the people in town, but nobody knows where the boy is. The girl looks for the boy for the whole day, while the boy that had changed into a dragonfly can only fly around the girl, not able to cry, shout, hug her, he can only watch her silently. Summer leaves, and winter coming, the weather is getting colder and colder, the dragonfly had to leave. So he went to the girl’s house, flew to her shoulder. He tried to use his wings to touch her face, use his small lips to kiss her forehead, but the girl did not notice the tiny little dragonfly.
After winter came summer, the dragonfly flew back to the small town, looks for the girl. But, when he found the girl, besides her stood a tall and handsome man, at that time, the dragonfly drop from the air, heart broken. The man is the doctor that is in charge of the girl during the girl was admitted into the hospital.
The dragonfly is very sad, the following days, he saw the doctor and the girl sat side-by-side on the beach to watch the sun sets, but he can only sat on the girl’s shoulder, can’t do anything. The summer for this year is extraordinary long, the dragonfly flew around sadly everyday, he does not has any courage to fly near the girl anymore.
Third year summer came, the dragonfly did not went to look for the girl anymore. The girl’s shoulder placed by the doctor’s hand, her cheek’s is kiss softly by the doctor, she doesn’t even notice there is a sad dragonfly on beside her, as well as doesn’t wish to think about the boy anymore.
The God’s promise of the dateline is coming soon. Until the last day, the girl marries with the doctor.
The dragonfly flew into the church quietly, he heard the girl said, “I do.” And looking at the doctor as the doctor slip the wedding ring into her little fingers, and they kiss. While the dragonfly cries.
The God said, “Are you regret now?” The dragonfly answered, “No!” The God reply him happily, “Well, tomorrow you will be back to normal as a human being.” The dragonfly shook his head, “Just let me be dragonfly for the rest of my life…”
Sometimes, when we need to let go, we should let it go. Not every story will have a happy ending.
Love somebody doesn’t need to have him/her, but having him/her must truly love each other. Do you have a dragonfly beside you?
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Nobody is perfect until you fall in love with them.
Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.
Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.
What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?
If love isn't a game, why are there so many players?
Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.
You can only go as far as you push!
Actions speak louder than words.
The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love somebody else.
Don't let the past hold you back, you're missing the good stuff.
Life's short.
If you don't look around once in a while you might miss it.
A best friend is like a four leaf clover, hard to find and lucky to have.
Some people make the world special by just being in it.
Best friends are the siblings God forgot to give us.
When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there.
True friendship never ends.
Friends are forever.
Good friends are like stars....you don't always see them, but you know they are always there.
Don't frown, you never know who is falling in lovewith your smile.
Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end.
Most people walk in and out of your life, but onlyfriends leave footprints in your heart.
If u love something...let it go.If it comes back to you its yours....If it doesn't then it never was.
A kiss is just a kiss until u find the one you love.
A hug is just a hug, until its from the one ur thinking of.
A dream is just a dream until u make it come true.
LOVE is just a word until its proven 2 u.
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The feeling of Love starts from the eyes, but the feeling of Like starts from the ears. If you stop liking a person, all you need to do is to cover your ears. But if you try to close your eyes, Love turns into teardrop and remains in your heart forever.
Love is not to forget but to forgive.
Not to see but to understand.
Not to hear but to listen.
Not to let go but to hold on.
.::_++_~~cH3n_w3!~~_++_::.
朋 友 ， 是 你 高 興 時 想 跟 他 分 享 的 ，
朋 友 ， 是 你 不 高 興 時 可 以 給 你 發 脾 氣 的 ，
朋 友 ， 也 是 在 你 沒 錢 開 飯 時 打 救 你 的 ，
朋 友 ， 你 悶 得 發 荒 時 可 以 跟 你 一 同 發 荒 的 ，
朋 友 ， 會 甘 願 給 功 課 你 抄 ， 跟 你 一 同 出 貓 一 同 被 人 罰 的 ，
朋 友 ， 也 是 你 買 手 信 時 ， 想 買 一 份 大 的 給 他 的，
朋 友 ， 也 是 你 看 見 他 上 線 時 ， 想 給 他 " 喔 噢 " ！
朋 友 就 是 無 形 中 伴 你 走 過 風 雨 ， 永 遠 支 持 你 的 力 量
朋 友 就 是 一 種 無 法 言 喻 的 美 好 感 覺
朋 友 就 是 在 別 人 面 前 永 遠 護 著 你 的 那 個 人
朋 友 就 是 即 使 是 一 點 小 感 動 ， 一 點 小 事 情 都 想 一 起 分 享
朋 友 就 是 當 你 抱 頭 痛 哭 的 時 候 ， 扶 著 你 肩 膀 的 那 個 人
朋 友 就 是 當 你 面 對 人 生 挫 折 時 ， 一 直 緊 握 你 的 那 雙 手
The greatest pain in life is not to die, but to be ignored.
To lose the person you love so much to another who doesn't care at all.
To have someone you care so about so much throw a party... and not tell you about it.
When your favorite person on earth neglects to invite you to his graduation.
To have people think that you don't care.
The greatest pain in life, is not to die, but to be forgotten.
To be left in the dust after another's great achievement.
To never get a call from a friend, just saying "hi".
When you show someone your innermost thoughts and they laugh in your face.
For friends to always be too busy to console you when you need someone to lift your spirits.
When it seems like the only person who cares about you, is you.
Life is full of pain, but does it ever get better?
Will people ever care about each other, and make time for those who are in need?
Each of us has a part to play in this great show we call life.
Each of us has a duty to mankind to tell our friends we love them.
If you do not care about your friends you will not be punished.
You will simply be ignored... forgotten... as you have done to others.
The guy who love you,
if he can't always see you,
he will try to make himself busy,
for not to have any time to remember you,
because he knew,
if he did,
he will keep on missing you until he could do nothing.
The guy who love you,
can't tell you thereason why he love you. he only knew that,
in his eyes,
you are the only one.
The guy who love you,
seldom praise you,
but in his heart,
you are the best,
only he know it.
The guy who love you,
will scold or complaint if you din't reply his message but others,
because he cares.
The guy who love you,
Only drop his tears infront of you,
when you try to wipe his tears,
you are touching his heart,
the heart which beat for you.
The guy who love you,
will remember every word u said,
even its accidentally,
and he will use
the word always at the nick of time.
The guy who love you,
will not give any promise that easily,
because they don't want to break the promise,
they want you to believe him and they want to give you the happiest and safest life ever after.
The guy who love you,
always tell you not to think too much,
because they already plan it for you,
he want to give u the best life in the future,
he want to give you a suprise,
belive him that he can do it.
The guy who love you,
will go to airport to fetch you,
he won't carry a bunch a rose and call you darling like what you expect,
but he will carry your ludgage and ask you "why are you becoming that thin within two days?"
with his sincere heart.
The boy who love you,
will listen quietly to you,
when you are mad,
and when you finished,
he will said,
you still got class tomorrow,
sleep earlier with smile.
The boy who love you,
don't know that whether he should call you when you are angry,
but he will sent a message to you after few hours,
if you ask him why he call that late,
he will said,
when you are angry,
my explanation are all rubbish.
But when you calm down,
my explanation will only really works.
The boy who love you,
always call you little kid,
but everytime he want to make a big decision,
he will first want to hear your advice.
The guy who love you,
don't like little toy like teddy bear,
but he will always put the bear you gift him at his bed.
The guy who love you,
while quarelling,
he will apologize uncontrollably,
althought you are the one who's wrong,
and later,
he will sent a message to you with
"baby, actually you know its your fault, you know it urself"
The guy who love you,
while really miss you,
he will want to buy a bunch of rose and wait you stupidly under your apartment,
but he never knows,
what he bought is daisy,
but doesn't matter,
because in his heart,
that's roses.
時間 ~
時間是一種很奇怪的東西
時間會使一個人變的很陌生
時間會使一個人的個性改變
時間是愛情的天敵
時間是友誼的天敵
距離 ~
距離是一種很可怕的東西
距離是考驗愛情的東西
距離是考驗友誼的東西
距離會使人思念
距離會使人陌生
感情 ~
感情是一種很神奇的東西
感情會使一個人不顧一切
感情會使一個人迷失方向
感情是人類的弱點
感情是人類的優點
我跟我心愛的人快被這三樣東西打倒了
我跟我知心好友快被這三樣東西打倒了
心中有一種說不出的無奈跟煩惱~~
幸福 ~
幸福 看不到
幸福 聽不到
幸福 觸摸不到
幸福 是Feeling
幸福 是Enjoy
幸福是 你深愛的人,也深愛著你
幸福是 想睡,不必擔心起床時間
幸福是 吃到最想吃的東西
幸福是 來到最想去的地方
幸福是 聽到最想聽的音樂
幸福是 想獨處時,沒人打擾
幸福是 跌倒了,又爬起來
幸福是 和朋友、情人有說不完的話
幸福是 雖非富有,但生活不愁匱乏
幸福是 寒流來襲時,把冰冷的腳放在情人的暖暖肚皮上
幸福是 炙熱太陽下,有一大片清涼的西瓜吃
幸福是 與最愛的人共賞明月
幸福是 永遠有讀不完愛讀的書
幸福是 自己感到被幸福包圍
開啟幸福的4把鑰匙
第一把鑰匙：Happy 快樂 隨手扔掉煩惱與憂傷,永遠面向陽光,保持樂觀。
第二把鑰匙：Health 健康 驅逐病痛惡習,確保身體安康。
第三把鑰匙：Humane 慈悲 讓慈悲溫柔充滿你的心房,以柔軟的心善待萬事萬物。
第四把鑰匙：Harmony 和諧 拋卻過往的喧嚷衝突,迎向和諧美好的世界。
What is FELICITY and how to get it? 什麼是幸福?怎樣得到它?
幸福是 圓滿的人生
幸福是一種狀態,當我們的需求獲得滿足, 因此,哪怕只是一碗泡麵,餓的時候,也能令我們幸福。 ~張曼娟
幸福是,在愛情發生的那瞬間,不需猶豫就能夠說出：我--愛--你。
另一種幸福,是說完就忘記的人。 ~水瓶鯨魚
以前覺得理想中的幸福,是可以隨心所欲, 但往往好像總會有一些羈絆,讓我們無法隨心所欲; 現在倒是覺得只要能有心情想些隨心所欲的事,就已經夠? 笑痐F!!
~平衍
長假的第一個早晨,慵懶地躺著-------對悠閒的預期能昇華出幸福的氣氛。
~蕭蓉蓉
幸福是每天起床時還活著,每晚入睡前確定今天沒有白活。 ~張草
你覺得幸福是什麼?
我覺得幸福是在--------遇見你的那瞬間--------
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best.
Love isn't about becoming somebody else's "perfect person". It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.
Never say "I love you" if you don't care. Never talk about feelings if they aren't there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look in the eyes when all you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall and it works both ways.
Love is not about "it's your fault", but "i'm sorry". Not "where are you", but "i'm right here". Not "how could you", but "i understand". Not "i wish you were", but "i thankful you are".
The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together, but how good you are for each other.
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.
How to be in love : fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.
It breaks your heart to see the one love happy with someone else, but it's painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.
A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be, and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it. If he isn't worth it now, he's not going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now, let go......
My wish for you is a man/woman whose love is honest, strong, mature, never-changing, uplifting, protective, rewarding and unselfish.
Ok, start this new blog from scratch, going to transfer all my old precious blog to here for the next few weeks, so you guys may see alot of ex-post... Will post something new when i'm really got mood...
